What is Counselling
What is counselling? Irvin Yalom, my favorite famous counselor says that any conversation that feels therapeutic for any of the parties is counselling. I tend to agree with this description. We've all had those type of conversations that go deep into our thoughts and feelings. They are often are accompanied with a glass of wine. Stuff gets bought to the surface that we never thought had such a huge impact on our lives. At the end of these conversations, our brains are still ticking over. The topics linger for a bit longer than our average conversations. Those conversations often change our world view, or bring something to our lives that we take with us every day, for the rest of our lives. Those are important conversations. Its what I would call accidental counselling or organic counselling. Intentional Counselling is something else again. This is the type of counselling where two people knowingly embark on a problem solving deliberate set of conversations. These will result ...